Facing Fear After a Parkinson’s Diagnosis
When you first hear the words “You have Parkinson’s”, it’s not just the present symptoms that haunt you — it’s the unknown, the terrifying “what ifs” that start to control your mind. Questions like:
- Will I still be able to walk in five years?
- Will I lose my voice?
- Will I become a burden?
Without a clear roadmap, the mind naturally writes its own — and it tends to imagine the worst-case scenarios.
Living in fear of the unknown is overwhelming. But there’s a way to shift that mindset, and today, we’re going to explore that transformation.
The Cycle of Feeding Fear
After diagnosis, many — like Bryce, the host of Living with Parkinson’s — fall into the trap of feeding fear every single day.
- Google became his worst enemy.
Late nights were spent reading every possible bad outcome and lurking in forums filled with horror stories. - Fear grows when fed with assumptions.
Bryce was “feeding fear three meals a day” by obsessing over worst-case outcomes morning, noon, and night.
There’s a fine line between wise planning and fear-based obsession. Having a care team, a will, and making smart preparations is healthy. But when your entire life becomes a desperate attempt to avoid bad outcomes, you miss out on the good that’s still here right now.
Living in the Present, Not the Future
Bryce realized something crucial:
“When your entire life becomes a plan to avoid the worst, you stop living the best of what’s still here.”
Most of the terrifying things he imagined never even happened. And the hard things that did? He handled them better than he thought he could.
Fifteen years after his diagnosis, he learned that success with Parkinson’s isn’t just about exercising the body — it’s about exercising the mind too. Strengthening mental resilience is just as important as maintaining physical health.
“Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.”
You survived yesterday. You’re surviving today. That alone is proof of your strength.
The Power of Presence
Rather than fast-forwarding through life like a movie you dread watching, Bryce started practicing presence:
- Laughing at a joke instead of worrying about the future.
- Feeling the sun on his face without panic.
- Taking a deep, calm breath.
Presence is not denial.
Presence is choosing joy over fear.
He called this shift “Doing Life Today.”
Stop postponing your happiness for “when things get better.” Life isn’t about waiting for the storms to pass — it’s about learning to dance in the rain.
Shifting Your Inner Dialogue
The most powerful change Bryce made was shifting his internal questions.
Instead of asking:
- “What if it gets worse?”
He started asking:
- “What if I get stronger?”
- “What if I learn to adapt?”
- “What if I’m more resilient than I think?”
- “What if the support I need shows up right when I need it?”
Fear didn’t magically disappear, but it no longer made his decisions for him.
Real-World Examples
Bryce shared personal moments where this shift changed his life:
- When his right hand shook too much to comb his hair, he thought:
“What if I learn to adapt and use my left hand?” - After a divorce, he thought he’d never find love again, but reframed it:
“What if I find someone who truly loves me for who I am?”
And he did.
The future might not be easy. But it might also be full of incredible, unimaginable, beautiful things — if you stay open to them.
Your Turn: Reframe Your Fears
Here’s a simple but powerful exercise you can do right now:
- Write down your biggest fear.
(Example: “What if I lose my independence?”) - Right next to it, reframe it positively.
(Example: “What if I learn new ways to stay independent and even stronger?”)
Sharing your reframed fears not only strengthens you — it helps others. Bryce reads every comment and reminds everyone: You’re not weak. You’re not broken. You’re human.
Don’t let fear take the wheel. You still have life to live, love to give, and a future that you get to help shape, one step at a time.
Save this post. Share it. Come back when fear creeps in — and remind yourself of the choice you have.
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